Match (no more ".com") has totally reconstructed its questionnaire to be less of a tedious interrogation and more of a conversational probe into how you'd react to realistic situations — both with a partner and, say, a neighbor who needs help at 3. a.m. The probe into your daily habits and values (plus the ability to mark traits that are deal breakers) ensures that Match sets you up with someone whose ideal lifestyle matches yours. The meshing of playfulness and rational thinking downs the pressure of signing up for a paid dating site.
A merger with the well-known hotline, Interactive Male, Guy Spy Voice is targeted at men aged 18-49 looking to connect across the USA and Canada for phone sex. You start by listening to other users greetings and selecting someone you want to connect with. Sending them a message you can chat if they are available or you can use the Live Connector to chat with someone who is online and ready to talk. One of the principle gay chatlines in the U.S. and Canada, Guy Spy Voice is well supported and is a great (and confidential) way to explore your sexuality from the privacy of your own home.
I was on Clover for quite some time, but had since forgotten it existed until I started to compile this list. It strikes me as a less-successful hybrid of OkCupid and Tinder with a relatively small user base, even though I live in an urban area with plenty of people who use a wide variety of dating apps. Clover says it has nearly 6 million users, 85% of whom are between the ages of 18 and 30.
Another bonus is that AdultFriendFinder is like the dating site version of New York City — it never sleeps. You'll find people who work the regular 9-5, people who work the night shift, and people in other time zones, so it's nearly impossible to log on and not have people to talk to. AdultFriendFinder is like the booty call that's always awake when you text them. 
This free dating site can help bisexuals find a potential date based on their unique dating preferences and dealbreakers. Most dating sites and apps require users to choose one gender or the other when browsing dating profiles, but BiCupid liberates bisexual and bi-curious online daters to pursue anyone they fancy regardless of that person’s gender, orientation, or sexual identity.
A late-night chat line, NightLine is a back to basics, but well-put-together, adult phone line. Offering phone sex that steers into the kinky from the risqué, NightLine offers party line group chats to help get the fun started as well as intimate one-on-one private chats. There isn’t much mucking about on this chatline and you can expect the talk to be steamy from the get-go.  Women, as ever, go free with guys getting no free trial but a discount on their first purchase. The lines are manned by real singles looking for phone hook-ups.
Features for introverts: The SmartPick can really be your best friend, serving as the best icebreaker. If both you and someone you're interested in both vote "yes" on each other's profiles, the SmartPick feature will let you know the good news by email and shoot you a message in your Zoosk inbox. Another good option is the Super Send feature, which could help eliminate the scary feeling from being the one to make the first move. Choose a message to break the ice, then allow Zoosk to blast it out to other members for you using Super Send. If someone indicates they're interested by writing back, then you get to view each other's profiles.
BlackPeopleMeet offers you up to eleven matches per day but you can also search for the members yourself. If you paid your membership, you’re free to contact the ones you like. In my opinion, this model is a bit confusing and doesn’t add a lot of value or excitement. The statistics show females as the primary audience of BlackPeopleMeet with a small percentage of males present so you can hardly call it one of the best free dating sites for women. So obviously, if you’re a guy you’ll get plenty of choices.
What it'll cost you: The basic version is completely free and is pretty extensive. You can totally use the app longterm without paying a cent — you'll just have to sift through matches one-by-one. If you like the freedom to browse, you might want to upgrade. Preferred members also get their profiles seen more, so it could be worth it if you're really looking for a relationship. One month of preferred is $19.99, three months is $39.99, and six months is $59.99.

Similar to Tinder, this app will show you random profiles of users so you can swipe left if you aren't interested or right to like them. If and when you both "like" one another: voilà, it's a match. What happens next depends entirely on your sexual orientation. If you get a message from someone you're not interested in, the connection disappears forever after 24 hours, so you don't have to be worried about the same person harassing you for six months straight.
If you are scared of pain, start with something small and comfortable. Basically, in your comfort zone. Test any that you may be using during the phone sex before the call, so you can become comfortable. Remember, sex toys are a thing totally based on preference, and if you've tried it once or twice and still don't like it, then you don't have to use it.
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